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Think about it: when you consider what to do in terms of relationships, don’t you use your parents’ marriage and/or relationships as a reference point?

It’s also commonplace to bring a friend along, but not for a double date – it’s more like a chaperon, buffer or safety net.This particular cultural difference, is, in my experience, a big reason so many intercultural relationships fail; I know one girl I met texted me five times the next day – a serious no-no for me but standard procedure for her.The man is generally supposed to handle all the decision making in Chinese dating, and some girls take this very seriously.As a result, being intimate before marriage is a lot less common in China than in the West, though this is not so much the case anymore among younger, more urbanized Chinese.The fact remains, though, that if you’re intimate while dating, there is a strong assumption that marriage is on the horizon.Consider, too, the generational issue at play here: The lovely lady you’ve been crushing on’s parents and grandparents are the ones exerting that pressure to get married, even though she herself may not feel that she’s ready or interested.

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