Theyre so beautiful these men, but its hard to have to fight so much when they're too scared to let go.I think the best advice for all of us is just to keep trying and really ask them honestly face to face how they feel..He tells me he doesn't want to even know me, then less than an hour later is standing next to me singing along to the karaoke and stopped to listen to me singing..gulps appearing inhis throat.(; He can say anything he likes, but I know he has strong feelings for me, but like your man, is so scared of being hurt again..has other men giving their accounts of broken relationships with the same star sign match..easy for me to win.I wish I knew the secret to getting them to trust, as I have given up 2 years of my life and not been with anyone else for the sake of showing him I can be trusted, and still nothing.it was hard for me, cz i've just started to like him, and especially hard for him, having his dream erased by something that was not his fault.he seems allright, but i know that he's quite broken inside.by Cheyenne (Lawton, Ok) I am dating an Aries man and his past relationship has left him with such low self esteem, trust issues.
i totally agree with the comment that says to be honest and straightforward but i must contest the "we will see holes in your story" part...
It is situations like these that cause me to hate other females who have so few ethics and feelings when it comes to the men in their lives.
They are spoilt, tactless little brats who deserve to feel the pain they leave in these fragile creatures.
I have the exact same problem, loving an Aries that truly thinks he's worthless.
I've told him a thousand times that i like him but he still doesn't believe it and i don't want to push him too hard, but im sure he does love me because no matter what or where we always end up kissing, and i know we make eachother so happy.
it got so bad that i felt every time i would talk to him i would have to think twice about anything i would say as i would be worried that even though it is the truth, he would some how contrive something else from it that would be the total opposite..