Also, he is not very verbal about his feelings and is kinda awkward in public.
Nevertheless, he calls/texts me a lot and always asks to see me at least 2-3 times a week.
So I guess its to do with money and he hates it when I mention it about him getting divorced and says he will get divorced when he wants too not when someone tells him.
If he hasn't after 6 years I don't feel there is any hope and I keep hoping but I don't wanna end myself wasting the best years of my life. I know everyone says but you will meet someone else but no one compares to him and I'd rather be happy as I'm forever comparing other men to him and no one comes close.
but then again if a White/Latino guy was acting like this, I would think he wasn't that into me if by now he did not make it explicit. He may be as Maham said, a bit shy because even though he isnt a practicing Muslim..still has the tendencies we do. He will take his sweet time getting to know you because he may genuinely be interested in you. Muslims don't make physical sexual displays in public because it is considered obscene. If he is not religious he will end up getting fairly physical in time, but he will probably never do anything in public and I wouldn't expect him to either.
I am really into him, but I don't want to get my hopes up, if you know what I mean. He may not be a practising Muslim but since he was born in a Muslim family he inherited of the characteristics of Muslims. The cultural differences are different for each family. If other men don't show affection in public it may be for other reasons the main reason for Muslims or people from our background not doing the same will be because of decency issues which stem from a healthy level of shyness.
But a really good friend of mine is Muslim/Pakistani and she said to just give it time...
us Latinas are sometimes too romantic and impatient with guys if he drinks n kisses u in private but doesn't take next step ok may be he's just not into u. aadha teeter, addha batair steph, dont be dissuaded by statements here, I am assuming you are questioning the absence of a physical relationship.
I only ask because I want to be sensitive to the culture and not be pushy... I really like him because no man has ever shown me so much respect... We watch tv/movies, play video games (lol), or we just talk and have some drinks.
If you arent going to say something directly to someones face, than dont use online as an opportunity to say it. Marriage should not be on the grounds of how people make us feel under the bed covers, marriage should be about whether two people can come to arrangements with each other and live in that dynamic state for as a long as they can imagine.
It is this sense of bravery that people get when they are anonymous that gives the blogosphere a bad reputation. I would not buy the stuff that he manages to kiss you when you gusy alone and don't otherwise. If he is the one for you then all you need to do is 'trust' and go with it. They roll down the windows of their car and let a paindu love song do all the talking....while they run their fingers through slicked-back hair that glistens with coconut oil.
If he was a practicing muslim, he would not have kissed you at first place. Then as you stare in utter horror (thinking that it couldn't get any worse), they smack their betel-juice stained lips and teeth and shout "Vaant be my Frrraan?
", which is the equivalent of Joey's "How You Doin? I have been seeing a very sweet Pakistani man for about 4 months now. I am Latina and am used to dating Latino/White guys, who tend to be very forward and upfront about whether they are into you (very touchy-feely, flirty, verbal).
I have been seeing this guy for nearly 9 months and he lied to me about being married and a Pakistani.