You want one who is willing to look stupid and foolishly passionate, refusing to let you, or anything else, go. No two people living together (or spending all their time together) will always be in a great mood.We’re bound to piss each other off every once in awhile.She knows you're always going to go for the girl who doesn't care, so she pretends to be her. As I'm sure you've come to understand, this can get confusing. I've outlined for you — in the most dummy-proof way I know how — the difference between what a woman does when she playshard to get versus what she does when she actually just doesn't like you. So she's going to wait for you to reach out to make sure you're interested. She'll casually mention an ex here or there, or maybe even tell you the story about the guy who was so obsessed with her at the bar last night. On the off chance that you did hook up, it was at her place and completely on her terms. And she never indicates any interest in coming to your place. When a woman doesn’t care, though, she’ll save her breath. Why try and help someone whose texts you're not sure you'll even respond to next week?Take it from loving, argumentative girlfriends all over the world: There’s no such thing as a silent girlfriend. A woman only says things because she wants you to hear them.
You want a girlfriend who isn't content just "dropping it" all the time.Men don’t live in the real world; they live in a fantasy world. Little do they know, however, a silent girlfriend is a plotting one. In their warped minds, men think the silence of a woman is the love of a woman -- that her refusal to argue or speak against him is a sign of devotion and intimacy. They've drawn up elaborate fantasies in which on their arm is the perfect, silent girlfriend who goes along with everything they say and never, ever talks back or questions.Women are not known for their stoic “suck it up and don’t let anyone know how you feel” attitude.A woman who has checked out of the relationship is also checked out of the conversation.