Dear NRMS, As the moniker I have given you denotes, I don’t think you’re familiar with my site.As the illustration I have chosen suggests, I feel that some of your ideas are fairly antiquated at best and misogynistic at worst. While it always upset me, I tried to keep the hurt to myself. She told me about her past (9 guys including a one night stand). My problem is that 11 years ago, I met a woman with whom I fell in love and eventually married.
As I discuss here, when people are taught that sex is shameful, it can significantly mess them up, to the point that they become extremely rigid and judgmental, like you are acting. I completely 100% disagree that a woman’s worth as a human is in any way impacted by the number of penises she has had in her vagina.Some of us see sex as an intimate expression of love, while others have sex for recreational purposes.It is possible that these views can, and often do, change over time.First things first: you are using protection when having sex, correct?The last thing you and your girlfriend need is for her to get pregnant right now, for the reasons I elucidate below.I have a girlfriend who comes from a religious family .. it makes me really unhappy and think that i want to end the relationship.